In a society that oftens feels geared toward achievement or success, sensitivity can seem like a weakness. People often associate sensitivity with someone who is fragile or easily overwhelmed. You may have been told to ‘stop being so sensitive’ or ‘toughen up to get on with it’. But research is showing that sensitivity may in fact be one of your strongest assets.

Psychologist Elaine Aaron first coined the phrase ‘highly sensitive person’, or HSP in the late 1990s. She explained that a highly sensitive person is someone who feels and sees things in a more intense way than their peers; as though the colour has been turned up in their life.

Rest has historically been defined as ‘stopping an activity for a period of time to regain or restore your strength’, but for most people these days, stopping just is not an option.

Exhaustion has become the norm for many people, who either try for a better night’s sleep hoping to fix things, or add a visit to the doctor to their to-do list.

American doctor Dr Saundra Dalton-Smith found herself in a similar situation. She tried to work out ‘what next?’ to replenish her energy and has become something of a rest expert. Dalton-Smith explains that sleep and rest are not the same thing, and that there are actually seven different types of rest we need to feel restored.

1. Physical

This may be the traditional rest of sleep or napping but can also be active rest. Activities like stretching and yoga are considered active forms of rest.

2. Mental

Signs you need more mental rest include drifting focus, feeling irritable, and not being able to switch off your racing brain at night. Building regular ‘brain breaks’ into your day might be the answer. Every one to two hours, stop for five minutes of physical movement (such as stretching), a mindfulness activity or a sensory activity such as having a drink of cold water. This is a time to relieve stress, boredom or frustration that you may not have been aware was building.

3. Sensory

We live in a very sensory-rich world and it is rare we have a moment where there is not a demand being placed on our sensory system. Simple things such as turning lights down, taking a moment to close your eyes, or using ear buds to reduce the noise can all help you rest your senses.

4. Creative

If you find yourself feeling uninspired or bored, it is a sure sign you need creative rest. Surround yourself with nature, look for the beauty in your surroundings. Fuel your imagination, shift how you approach creativity and you will be giving yourself rest in this domain.

Thinking about dementia may not be at the top of your mind. However, researchers are finding that about 40 per cent of dementia cases could be prevented or delayed by lifestyle measures. They have identified things you can be doing years (even decades) before you would traditionally start thinking about dementia to reduce your risk.

The World Health Organization has a set of easy-to-follow guidelines to get you started.

1. Be physically active. Engaging in aerobic exercise every day is thought to lower the risk of cognitive decline or dementia.

2. Stop smoking. Not only is giving up cigarettes good for your general health, it is great for your brain health.

3. Eat a balanced (preferably Mediterranean) diet. The Mediterranean diet is low in red meat and high in wholegrains, fruit and vegetables, fish and shellfish, nuts, olive oil and other healthy fats.